TRI NURAINI

We all tell ourselves stories.

Some are loud and clear, guiding our daily decisions, while others whisper in the background, subtly influencing our perceptions. These stories, whether we realize it or not, really impact how we experience life and, in the end, how we create it.

Okay, let’s compare these two hypothetical stories below..

Story A

I am 34 years old, single, not married, and without children. Although it seems to others that I have an amazing career and life, I don’t feel happy inside. I see all my friends happily married with children, going on family trips here and there. Whenever I see their pictures on social media, my heart aches.

I spend my time doing my best at work, but even as a head of division of the company I work for, I still feel not good enough. Many of my college friends are now seem even more successful than me, in their lives, careers or businesses! Sometimes I wonder if I’m worthy of what I desire in life.  

Story B

Hi, I’m a 34-year-old single, and I’m having the best time of my life! I have a great job, and I really enjoy exploring what life has to offer. I travel solo or with friends and explore many new hobbies, from sports and art to learning new languages. I see the world as an amazing place to explore, and I’m excited every day.

While I’m aware I’m not perfect (and who is?), I know I can always grow. Life is full of ups and downs, and I think that’s beautiful.  I’m learning everyday to navigate life gracefully. I don’t have everything figured out, and that’s perfectly okay. Every day, in every way, I get better and better. I’m excited of my future!

As you can see, it’s the same person, but can you feel the difference when you read it? And, to be honest, both stories were my stories in the past!

I believe life is created. We are the stories we tell ourselves.

We do this through our perspectives, which are shaped by the stories we tell ourselves. We can always create a better story, and we can always create a better life.

And every day, we get to create a new story. Isn’t that wonderful? 😍

So, how do you want to create your story today?  

My wish you for you is that you consciously create your own story and live your best life.

Remember, you are meant to thrive, not just survive.

And if you ever need my support, I’m here for you.

Have a wonderful week! ❤️

With love,
Inuk

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